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The Speakmans - The Worlds Leading Life Change Therapists
United Kingdom
Приєднався 27 лис 2007
The World's Leading, Inspiring, Life-Change Therapists. Creators of Schema Conditioning Psychotherapy®. Resident Therapists on ITV's This Morning. Posting helpful videos with tips and advice to help you, because we know you can be better.
Do You Struggle with Superstitions? I Nik & Eva
Taking calls about your superstitions on Friday 13th.
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Відео
Frog Phobia I Nik & Eva
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Cured in 10 A new mini series from Nik & Eva. Can they cure phobias in 10 minutes? Their first episode is a phobia of frogs. Subscribe to our UA-cam channel for more tips: goo.gl/Lgzxjw Discover more about us on our website: www.nikandeva.com/ Conquer Your Anxiety with our book: www.amazon.co.uk/Conquering-Anxiety-worrying-stress-happy/dp/1841883212/ Follow us on TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@thespea...
Triskaidekaphobia I Nik & Eva
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Nik & Eva often cover superstitions on the This Morning. The three most common, the 13th, knocking on wood and walking under ladders. Check our channel for several Superstitions phone ins where we give advice on how to overcome superstitions. Subscribe to our UA-cam channel for more tips: goo.gl/Lgzxjw Discover more about us on our website: www.nikandeva.com/
The Speakmans I Nik & Eva
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Nik & Eva became full time therapists in 1998. Here are some clips of their TV work. Subscribe to our UA-cam channel for more tips: goo.gl/Lgzxjw Discover more about us on our website: www.nikandeva.com/
Save Yourself Before You Save The World I Nik & Eva
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One of the 12 'Core Schemas' that completely transformed our lives since we created and started to practice them daily in 1998, and still do. On the face of it, this schema may appear selfish, but just consider a jug of water and a few glasses. If you are the jug, you can fill a few glasses, but they comes a point where you have to refill otherwise you cant continue to keep filling others glass...
You Become What You Think About I Nik & Eva
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One of the 12 'Core Schemas' that completely transformed our lives since we created and started to practice them daily in 1998, and still do. Just consider that everything you do starts with a thought. If you look at your life today, everything around you began with your thoughts. Knowing this, if you change your thoughts, you can change your future. Subscribe to our UA-cam channel for more tip...
No Bad People In The World I Nik & Eva
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One of the 12 'Core Schemas' that completely transformed our lives since we created and started to practice them daily in 1998, and still do. Out of context this may appear a controversial statement. However this schema is all about how you view those people around you and how they affect you and also how you can let go of resentful feelings from people who hurt you in the past. Subscribe to ou...
New Year Resolutions I Nik & Eva
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Tips to help you can succeed with your New Year Resolutions Subscribe to our UA-cam channel for more tips: goo.gl/Lgzxjw Discover more about us on our website: www.nikandeva.com/ Conquer Your Anxiety with our book: www.amazon.co.uk/Conquering-Anxiety-worrying-stress-happy/dp/1841883212/ Like us on Facebook: Thespeakmans/ Follow us on Instagram: thespeakmans
You Have To Give To Receive I Nik & Eva
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One of the 12 'Core Schemas' that completely transformed our lives since we created and started to practice them daily in 1998, and still do. Giving to receive changes your perspective on life in a great way. Just try this for one week and notice how much better you feel. Giving complements is simple and costs nothing and yet it can totally make a difference to someones live as well as your own...
Snowman Phobia & Pantomime Horses Phobia I Nik & Eva
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Sharnie Christie has a fear of people in fancy dress, snowmen and in particular Pantomime Horses. She has struggled for ten years and seeing anyone in fancy dress with their face covered brings her to tears. Aired on TV in 2011. Subscribe to our UA-cam channel for more tips: goo.gl/Lgzxjw Discover more about us on our website: www.nikandeva.com/ Conquer Your Anxiety with our book: www.amazon.co...
Garlic Phobia I Nik & Eva
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Heather has suffered with a garlic phobia for 40 years. Known as alliumphobia, this fear has completely dominated her life as garlic is an ingredient in most packaged foods. She has even left jobs because of garlic. So desperate to overcome this she contacted Nik & Eva. Discover more about us on our website: www.nikandeva.com/ Conquer Your Anxiety with our book: www.amazon.co.uk/Conquering-Anxi...
Phobia of Vomit (Emetophobia) Phone In I Nik & Eva
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Nik & Eva host a phone in with callers who have phobias of Vomit, Fish and Butterflies. They also receive a call from a previous caller who after taking Nik & Eva's advice flew for the first time in 30 Years! Subscribe to our UA-cam channel for more tips: goo.gl/Lgzxjw Discover more about us on our website: www.nikandeva.com/ Conquer Your Anxiety with our book: www.amazon.co.uk/Conquering-Anxie...
Phobia of Motorways and Flying Phone In I Nik & Eva
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Phobia of Motorways and Flying Phone In I Nik & Eva
Dog & Rollercoasters Phobia Phone In I Nik & Eva
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Dog & Rollercoasters Phobia Phone In I Nik & Eva
Overcoming PTSD from Murder I Nik & Eva
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Overcoming PTSD from Murder I Nik & Eva
You Become What You Think About I Nik & Eva
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You Become What You Think About I Nik & Eva
50 years of Claustrophobia I Nik & Eva
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50 years of Claustrophobia I Nik & Eva
You Have To Give To Receive I Nik & Eva
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You Have To Give To Receive I Nik & Eva
Overcoming a Flying Phobia I Nik & Eva
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Overcoming a Flying Phobia I Nik & Eva
Overcoming A Fear Of Food I Nik & Eva
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Overcoming A Fear Of Food I Nik & Eva
Planning Your Life Will Change Your Life I Nik & Eva
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Planning Your Life Will Change Your Life I Nik & Eva
❤😊 yes yes thank you for your advice but the greater advice is to repent and receive Jesus in your heart and his perfect love will cast out all fear and you will overcome all anxiety because he'll give you the grace to do it amen thank you Jesus 🙏💕🙏😊
❤😊❤ repent and receive Jesus in your heart 🙏❤️ amen and you'll overcome all the anxiety because his perfect love will cast out all fear amen 🙏 thank you Jesus for salvation 🙏 Amen
Yep worked for my wife and it wasn’t her thumb … we both enjoyed it 😂
I remember you both talking about this young girls situation in your workshop i came to and it really stuck with me. You are both amazing and I would give ANYTHING to be able to have a session with you both 🥺😔
This solved nothing for me.
This was such a lovely day ❤ Honestly you were amazing, so kind and welcoming - you both helped me so much. Lots of love & Thanks, hope your both well ❤ And @pinkdolly Thankyou so much!! That's so lovely
Perspective. Life is about perspective. This makes me think of racist people. Ask them, what have someone like me done to them, to warrant their hatred? I don't know you, never spoken to you, etc. So WHY do you hate me? I've never been a part of your life and clearly from a bigot, I never will lmao! Same thing! I LOVE snakes for the record, my spirit animal actually in horoscope references. Humans are irrational, unreasonable, egocentric, narcissistic , drama. Too much complexities
I love the Speaksmans. They do so much good! Other therapists don't bother to know more to help other people. God bless them!
When did she managed to get the sleeve tattoo during these 4 yrs? Anyway, congrats with the progress! Exposure therapy for the win 🎉
I absolutely hate wasps, there are a fuck tone of them around my house. I have got chased and stung by an entire hive with my cousins when I was little. I also got stung in my ass while going to school a couple of years ago. And I had to sit on the entire day. And now I am having problems sleeping because I immediately wake up the moment I hear a buzzing sound
And another thing there was a wasp nest outside my window, so at this point it just seems that I am getting targeted for no reason
Thank you for this
It changes to red on me every time… the train barriers the pop up for nothing road work lights the lot of them red red red i do like a rest so I pick up my phone and in a flash we back on green
It feels like I am going to die of suffocation.Like Something is going to happen and there is no escape route...
I have a phobia of being stuck in a closed of place while its moving, basically if i cant escape the area ill have panick attack, i seen professionals and nobody can cure me or find my schema. 8(
I wish choking never exist or at least that choking isn't fatal so some people including me won't suffered this choking/swallowing phobia ugh
the big animal ones freak me out
Wow. This one has something special about it. So powerful!
Thank you so much for this! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This looks like total B.S..... Zero explanation.
Just had to come in on a sunny day because of swifts diving past me. I am terrified of them touching me. I cannot get to a place in my head where I can cope. Just listening to your anecdotes causes anxiety. A claw in a sleeve!!!! Arrgghhh!
Trapped in a MRI scan
for example, a cafe terrace where you enjoy coffee with friends and other people there. then Mr. Wasp arrives. leave a comment how are you doing?
Here’s one way to put it. There’s one good thing about having mice in your house. It means you don’t have snakes because snakes would’ve eaten the mice.
i have suffered with anxiety and agoraphobia for most of my life im now 62, ive struggled, fought, and failed, mised out on so much. no one has been able to help me.
i got the courage up to go to the dentist after a long time, after a bad dental experience, and the dentist said to me that he would sort my teeth out after i had had some sessions with the hygienist for 5 sessions, but he said it would be very painful for me as my gums are receeding. needless to say i didnt go back.
I am terrified because they chase u and get in ur face I love bees cause they leave me alone but I HATE wasps ppl say they leave u alone but they don’t
This is so beautiful , made me cry . What a wonderful purpose you both have in this world the speakmans❤x
Wow that is not good corner
Fortunately we helped him overcome his anxieties and he is great now.
She says she's terrified yet she can sit there and look at a picture of one. I can't even look at a picture of one.
The same phobia can effect sufferers in so many different ways. Please dont lose sight though that you too can overcome your arachnophobia x
I keep seeing one but it’s not said for me as brought me and my partner actually got closer together x
That is so cool x
I had this as a child , absolutley petrified , im over it now , dont know how ?
We can naturally overcome phobias as we gradually realise they are not based on fact. Well done you! x
@@nikandevaspeakman ooh wow thats so cool ! I hope that happens with some other phobias haha !x
Wish i could get some help with mine Georgia i hope you got your life back
I had escalator phobia. When i was about 4 I was with mum and dad going up an escalator. When we got to the very top it grabbed my shoelace and I was stuck. I panicked and then dad snapped the shoelace setting me free.
To be honest I am still nervous 40 years later..
So sad to hear you are still struggling Craig. If you change your focus, on the fact your shoelace was untied, an accident nearly happened, but your dad prevented it. That way you can consider that the escalator did nothing wrong. Hope that helps.
Fear of dogs is a natural and healthy repsonse. Forcing people to suppress this is unhealthy
Dog are the most common pet in the world. Dogs help the blind and save many people around the world daily.
i got stung by a wasp 7 years ago now im a pussy
Please dont blame all wasps because of one. That's like having a friend treat you badly and never looking to make any new friends.
I DO PITY THEM!!!! I cannot harm one at all!!! THAT DOES NOT RID MY FEAR!! It actually makes it worse.
try completing a fears versus facts list.
Ok so my fear comes from having GIANT wood rats as a child and my dad telling us that if we got out of bed at night they would bite our feet and watching that sewer rat movie. My dad was a twisted person he thought our fear was hilarious.
Just consider that it was your dad who created your fear, the rats did nothing. Also they wood appear bigger to you as a child. too
How is she in 2024??
Linda actually likes mice now! After we cured her she went on 'I'm a celebrity get me out of here' and she faced rats daily with no issues.
I got an airline advert before this video.
LOL!
But how can I recover from my past trauma 😢
You have to consider the worst bit of the trauma and look for alternative ways to view it.
Miss dizzy dentists are there to take away your pain. I always feel scared but the dentist is brilliant and take away your pain. You can't take that pain close your eyes and within tem minutes its done.
David is now completely over his fear of dentists had has had many treatments since.
No way she was cured within one programme.. definitely wasn’t a real phobia
It completely was real, it blighted her life. Phobias take seconds to create so taking it away in one hour is entirely possible.
I have cynophobia and there’s a therapy dog at my dog
so sorry to hear that. Cynophobia is very common so you are certainly not alone.
no cus what if it hits the building and i get electrocuted or it sets on fire or the building collapses
Buildings usually direct a lightening strike to earth so that no damage is caused.
blonde lincoln
not sure what that means
I've been in 2 really bad storms twice in 4 years. And I was ok for a while after I got over the fear of the first one. But then it came back right after the second one. It's freaking horrible
I'm not scared of Mascots, but I can see why some people are scared lf them. What Molly said, they walk clumsy and are large.
That is so true, they are clumsy!
😢I like dish soap and use it to brush my teeth my gums bled so hard 😫😫😫😫😫😜 So funny
Eva, you and Nick are fantastic, thank you so much for this x
You are so very welcome! Much love N&E x
When I was 3, I saw black large rats floating in a bucket in my kitchen. Now I have mice in my kitchen and I can’t go in there. I get panic attacks. I feel my blood pressure rising, nausea, weak legs. They are squatters!! You DO see them wandering down the street! I HATE Foxes too! No. You haven’t helped.